Love is your nature, loving is your habit, innate in you from the time you were born and till death it will prevail, despite your hard efforts not to love someone you will love, it is just so involuntary you have no control over. Yes you can fool yourself for not loving. But it is there, only that you are denying and fooling of you.
Love is not any business to trade, love is not any career to build, love is not any act or pretentious drama. So there is no success no failure.
Even the most rudest person you ever came across has this loving side of his personality just only over too shielded to show. Although present albeit hidden.
Some person will understand you, some will like you, it is not always that everyone you came across will like you or love you or agree with your views. So let it be…when someone says they love you, you can not say that they will love you forever. There are numerous cases in this world where you will find couples in love stayed together for two decades and suddenly they find it hard to even face time each other.
Why? They start to feel they no more love that person they are just not compatible with them anymore and hence walk away in opposite directions feeling suffocated of that very person who was some day their favorite ones.
To find new love in the pretext of loving forever.
Love is not an act, love is not even a situation, it is our very nature. If you are in love with somebody don’t think that it will be forever, unless and until there is knowledge or wisdom in it.
Love with wisdom and knowledge will stay forever even if you no longer remain to breath. The essence will prevail longer after you are gone.
Love with selfishness, self pleasure or just for the sake of being there will later or sooner die out leaving you heartbroken bringing misery in life nothing more. You will have to understand that.
If your love is there to help others, nobody can destroy it, but if your love is to get something from the other, sooner or later, it will be broken into pieces.
Is your love eternal? I mean is your love based on wisdom? Is it true love?
Only you can answer that and no one else, just make sure to be brutally honest with your inner self to get this answer in it’s truest form ever.
Is your love only to get pleasure from your partner or are you with that person just because you want something from them?
If yes, the keep it in your mind intact that it is going to bring you pain.
But if your love is there only to care and you cannot be without it, then that is your true nature. That is what is true love.
That is human behavior of always wanting more and never appreciating for what they have, similarly we complain in love, for what we have. Think little differently and start thinking that the love you receive is much more than what you deserve.
If you come from this space of humility, then you will behave with magnanimity and dignity in all your dealings. You won’t chew on the past, you will live in the present moment, you will honor the other’s opinions, you will understand the other’s predicaments; that magnanimity will come from within.
If you keep this in mind, that I don’t deserve this love, you will not demand love. And when you don’t demand love in your life, it keeps on increasing.
Well that was according to views from a great spiritual leader, I am still popping up many more questions seeking answers…
What is a true love according to you?
Are all couples we came or come across are in true love?
How do you define separation in true love?
Why crime takes up space in love?
What does “everything is fair in love and war” means?