This thing is never going to find place that what happens as soon as you enter your twenties, you get to get that never ending piercing eye gaze from your parents, your relatives and even your neighbors. Why? Curious to know when are you getting married and settling down in life with someone. This question seems more than important, where the whole universe looks at you more excitedly about you taking a plunge into your personal life rather watching and motivating you in building your career.
It’s absolutely fine to be not marrying anybody in life. Well I am not saying you shouldn’t get married, in the journey of life when you get to meet a person who is just so compatible with you and you two are in real love which will end till last, go ahead and settle down with that someone.
But! it’s fine if you feel like not marrying anyone and decided to be single whole life. We have brought you here few points which will validate your decision: This decision should be yours who you want to settle down with and who of course will not be any random stranger who will share with your life.
Marriage is just a tag
Forgetting the Indian culture for few seconds you will realize that getting married to someone you tend to care, love, share and take responsibilities for that person and vice versa, but you can do this all for the person you really want, doesn’t this marriage looks as a forcing ritual to do this all? Whatever after marriage you will be getting a tag for sure.
Marrying is not a safer option
Where in the world people who are going through rough patches of cheating, infidelity, extramarital, breakups, etc how can marriage be an option to stay safe from getting hurt. I mean even though you get married what is going to be bad will go bad, your marriage won’t save it. Instead you will be mentally much more calm and satisfied when you go through ugly relationship truths when you are unmarried rather married, it will help you move and heal faster.
People are getting divorced. So it is not safe from any angle.
Marriage does not justify your existence to be shared with a stranger
Our parents may think otherwise and even say that this is what happened in our times, but that is absolutely okay, what happened to them is not your destiny too. Marriage should happen when true love is there, and if you feel there is still time left for you to meet your special someone. Stay single.
Marriage is made in heaven
Who told that? God?
20’s are for building yourself
The time when you reach your adulthood, you get to explore the world around you, the people and more importantly you start knowing yourself more deeply your likes, your dislikes, who you want, what you need and above all what kind/ qualities you really admire in that person you really want to live your life with.