Here I share you the signs which loudly screams at you to move on from your relationship whether good or bad, you may feel hurt and exposed and used but trust me I have been in more failed relationships where the partner was just not right. With so many ups and downs one may feel lost and disappointed but guys that is okay to feel we are emotional creatures, it’s not bad to cry, instead cry and get over it as soon as you can. Bounce back into life because you total worth it, it is useless to cry for someone not worthy enough. Do not let them ruin your life there are 7 billion people out there.
Do not be an emotional fool, always look out for positive sides for any downfalls. learn to love yourself the longest relationship you will ever have is with you, so know how to love yourself. Remember people will always remind you why you need to be your own priority.
1. When you have to beg from partner for attention and affection
Are you trying to please them? Although it is very important to impress them, but it is not that you have to be always wearing a happy mask, to look alluring and amazing, you need to be yourself after certain time period and your partner must understand that loving the happy side doesn’t come alone there come flaws also.
2. You often hide your actual side
If they love you they must know how to love you with your flaws too. Every person has two sides, no one is single dimensional. And if they love your better side and dgaf to your flawed side, baby you are dealing with the wrong person.
3. S/he doesn’t invite you anywhere
They would feel proud to have you, they would love to take you everywhere possible, they will include you in each plan of theirs. Bestowing you with love, time, gifts and all you deserve. you have full rights to be in your space and every individual has that space, alone time and time together both are equally important. But if they keep you picking out then understand there is something not as good as you r assuming it to be.
4. If you keep justifying your significant other’s habits
When you have to keep fixing his actions remember you are dating them and not their potentials. You must be wasting your time making what could be rather accepting what the reality is. Yes every relationship is required with changes from either parties but if you are putting just to change single person, it is not good for any of you, just take your pride at your stride and walk away.
5. If your relation is one sided
It takes two to build a relation, if it is just you who is doing all things from sacrificing to explaining for the things they don’t even try to put any effort into. They claim heavens for their love, dear it must reflect in their actions and not just wordy stuffs. It is better said than done. Check out if you partner tend to say a lot and do nothing in return, then you are wasting your time. Relationship is a two-way lane.
6. You often convince yourself to sleep that you’re happy
Okay if all is correct for you just ask yourself single question ” Are you really happy in this relation”? If it takes too longer to ponder the answer, you don’t even need to answer then, instead pack your bags and move away.