He:Hey I like you, I’ve liked you for sometime quite a while now, will you go out with me?
She:Uh- what? Uh, I …I can’t go out with you I just can’t do that I am sorry , I wanted to be only friends with you.
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Friend-zone(d)
A state of being where a male accidentally becomes “platonic friend” of an attractive female, with who he was trying to initiate a romantic relationship.
Girl: I love you (insert that bastard’s name). But I have never thought of you like that, I mean you are a nice guy and any girl would feel lucky to get you and I really really like you but I have never seen you like that. And dating you would only ruin our friendship.
Boy: (to himself) I am fucked. Why the heck did I waste two months on you?
“A friendzone is like a penalty box of dating only you can never get out. Once a girl decides you are a friend to her, it’s a game over. You have become a complete non-sexual entity in her eyes, like her brother or a lamp“.– Ryan Reynolds in Just Friends
I have been locked in the friendzone with her since high-school”
So being friend-ed, is often bitter feeling, and out of extreme bitterness this term was born” FriendZone”. Where a female is not going to fcuk someone by her sole choice. Often used for douchebags or people with nice guy syndrome.
I went to the friendzone few months back to make some friends only to find pretty good number of angry mens’ right’s activists wearing fedora.
LOL
Basically friend zone is just a situation, okay, a very embarrassing situation for both ( male , female ) and both want to forget it as soon as possible( yes I doubt if females get friend-zoned) whatever who cares about the gender, even homosexuals get friend-zoned too.
You often attain this zone when you fail to attain the girl you have strong interests in. So this initiations is from that woman only, saying” you are such a good friend”. Often associated with long days of sufferings and watching your love interest hop from one bad relationship to another.
“You know that hot chick I have been talking to for sometimes, she friend-ed me”
“I spent all the money on her only to be friend zoned later”
Writing about the modern India, Friendzone seems valid enough to be included among some serious national issues of youth (pun intended) apart from unemployment.
So why do girls friendzone guys? I mean what’s the whole point? If that guy is good enough to be her friend behaves nicely to her, respect her in all her endeavors , plays a perfect mood tackler, even the girl agrees time to time of him being a guy any girl would desire and love to keep, then why she can’t make him her boyfriend? Isn’t there friend in boyfriend too? There is always this way in which friendship slowly turns into romantic relationship. Why can’t a guy establish friendship first and then build whatever he wants to build out of it? Isn’t it true that a good boyfriend/girlfriend is someone who holds a balance between a lover and a true friend?
Is it that a girl secretly aware about the guy’s liking towards her and and still she keeps trying him and leading him to that extent, where he ultimately falls into the dreaded FRIEND-ZONE and thus leads his life in resentment and loss?
Are all girls like that?
Is it similar as a girl being a jockey and riding a horse (guy) with a carrot being tied to a string and held in front of the horse and he keeps running to eat that damn thing, while the jockey enjoys the ride? Maybe it sounds little rude but maybe.
Or is it just as simple?
A guy should immediately ask the girl out without knowing her , because once you start to know each other you tend to be friends and the probabilities of a guy being friendzoned increases potentially?
Well there are so many replies few of the selective ones are brought here directly from the YAHOO! Answers.
Phew!!!
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